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Circles

What we hold.

Participant-led, community-held circles that respond to sexual harm. Each is shaped by context and community; each holds space for conversation, not conclusion, building capacity to stay with what's unresolved, together.

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In Search of Peace healing circles

Central Virginia & online · free, always

The Fund's local circles, held through the In Search of Peace community justice practice: peer support, circle keeping, and community-based responses to sexual harm and other relational violence. Rooted in Central Virginia, offered virtually worldwide, and free, always. The Fund pays for circles so that cost is never the reason someone stays alone with this.

Grounded in abolitionist values and deep relational practice, these circles respond to harms that ripple through families, schools, social spaces, and local institutions. They meet the needs of those who have experienced harm, those who have caused harm, support people, and community members, sometimes in separate spaces, sometimes overlapping.

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Tenderfeet Circles

Peer-led healing circles for survivors of abuse in the Boy Scouts

Tenderfeet Circles are peer-led healing circles for people who were sexually abused as children in the Boy Scouts of America, and for the people who love them. The practice is modeled on Hidden Water's circle model for childhood sexual abuse, adapted to the particular shape of this harm: its scale, its institutional silence, and the specific loyalties and losses that Scouting carried for so many boys.

Circles will be free, voluntary, and keeper-held. More soon.

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Across the Southeast & beyond

Community Dialogues

Regional inquiry circles on abolition and sexual harm

This namesake project invites communities across the southeastern United States and beyond to ask, and begin to answer, the hardest questions: What do we do with sexual harm if we don't turn to police, prisons, or forced silence? These often larger-scale, circle-based dialogues explore lived experiences, fears, longings, and possibilities, not as abstractions but as collective openings.

The project also connects with and supports practitioners, groups, and communities already engaged in these conversations: restorative and transformative justice practitioners, rape crisis and domestic violence interventionists, community organizations, and beyond, learning from local leadership, sharing resources, and building interdependence across regions.

If we can learn to talk about these harms without defaulting to punishment, we can accelerate our ability to build a world where prisons are no longer required.

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Three shapes

How a circle takes shape.

Parallel

Sometimes circles are only for survivors, or only for those who've caused harm, or only for loved ones. Separate rooms, the same questions.

Overlapping

When readiness, safety, and relationship allow, circles overlap — and people who were kept apart by harm sit in the same room.

Held

Every circle is shaped by the people in it and held by a keeper: not a neutral facilitator, but someone grounded, attuned, and in relationship.

Where it comes from

We are not inventing something new. Our work is shaped by deep lineages: Indigenous circle practice, community accountability efforts, somatic abolitionism, liberatory Black movements, and the many less visible traditions of holding harm through presence rather than punishment. We do this work in continuation, not in isolation.

Our circles are participant-led and community-held. Each one is shaped by those who choose to join and co-create it. Participation is voluntary, consent is ongoing, and trust is something we build together through pace, presence, and care. We honor the wisdom of the body, the need for slowness, and the truth that repair takes time.

We are not offering quick fixes or pre-scripted outcomes. Circles don't solve everything, but they create space to ask the questions that human-centered justice demands. They offer opportunities to be seen, heard, and held without fear, and invite us into the practice of extending dignity to ourselves and to each other.

Circles are a social technology of listening: a place where questions can breathe, stories can be honored, histories held, and new growth can emerge.